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Showing posts with label a day in the life... Show all posts

9.06.2015

9.6.2015

Hoy, little Captain, 
Master of your basket boat, 
With a blanket and a bottle 
For companions while you float.

What do you see, little eyes,
From your perch at basket's helm?
You are small, but make it clear:
You rule a vast and mighty realm.

And one day, darling boy,
Your hamper ship abandoned,
You'll be as big as you now dream yourself to be.

Unsteady at life's helm,
In an ocean far too wide,
I'll be saying (just as now): "Little Captain of the sea,
If the waves seem overwhelming, sail to me."


10.08.2011

10/08/2011

At nearly-six, you're not too big
to rock to sleep at night.
You're not too old to kiss, to hold,
to sleep with a nightlight.

At nearly-six, you're not too big
for flannel pajamas and dinosaur tees.
You're not aware that people might stare
if you fall and you skin your knee.

At nearly-six, you do not care
if you fit in society's mold.
You just live and laugh and love because,
at just nearly-six you aren't old.


At nearly-six, your Mom recalls
miles of memories.
And it seems to her a paradox
how quickly those miles can flee.

Nearly-six years of shared stories.
Nearly-six years of your smile.
Nearly-six years of bottles and meals.
And, oh, how nearly-six flies!

Nearly-six, will you stay a bit longer?
Will you linger while I take you in?
I do not need to turn back time's dial,
just for a time cease it to spin.


Nearly-six and he's checking for loose teeth,
saying that he's growing tall,
asking grown-up questions,
and calling toddlers "small."

Nearly-six and he's fast comprehending
that some things can't be understood:
That the world is dark, that fear is real,
and that somehow God is still good.


Oh, twenty six year old Mother,
don't let these moments slip past.
Nearly-seven is just 'round the corner.
Fill the years with things that will last.





1.11.2011

01/11/2011

Like the miners, forty-niners,
we all headed to find gold,

to find riches, to seek treasure,
and a heap 'o wealth behold.
But alas, despite the interest
and the effort that we gave,
No treasures found compared
to the treasure of the cave:



1.07.2011

01/07/2011

Lovely Little Lads and Lasses

12.16.2010

12/16/2010

I think the notion that a child is ready to potty train when he/she hides while having a bowel movement is quite widely accepted. It is at this point that the child is able to recognize their need to use the bathroom and is, therefore, trainable.

With Nathan, that was pretty much the case. Although Nathan was a little stubborn, potty training him wasn't too much trouble. I didn't know what I was doing, of course! After all, Nathan is our firstborn. But it all seemed to fall into place.

Not so with Nia.

I had this blissful image of potty training Nia. I had heard that girls are easier and faster to train. They seem able to grasp the concept at a younger age than their male peers. I was feeling confident in my ability to train Nia. But I was wrong.

Nia was uncooperative. Unwilling. Unready. Un-trainable!

I was completely undone.

I had no idea what to do. I tried training using several different philosophies, but nothing was working. I finally set aside the notion of training Nia and just hoped that, in her case, potty training would come on it's own.

And it did. Sort of.

Because one day I was walking through the house when I discovered this:


Lottie had found a new and innovative place to 'hide' while having a bowel movement. Lottie was ready to train! (I was in stitches, racing for the camera, and telling myself that this was a moment worth capturing!)

Once I started training Lottie, guess who decided that they, too, wanted to be a big girl? That's right. Nia. So here we are, with two girls actively potty training. I'm exhausted, up to my ears in small, damp underpants, sore from the performance of multiple outrageous 'potty success dances', and ready for both girls to be completely trained and accident free.

But at least we are having success!

11.09.2010

11/9/2010

I've spent a good deal of the morning thinking about my Grandma Durling. I think it's because I am making roast beef for dinner, and roast beef always makes me think of my Grandma!

Grandma has taught me so many things. The best roast beef, for instance, is cheap, cooked low and long, and made on the stove top. The best bread takes hours, a touch of sugar, and scalded milk, but is totally worth the effort! Time spent picking strawberries is not time wasted. Fresh corn can be cut off the cob and frozen and will retain it's amazing crunch and sweetness when reheated.

But, not all the lessons Grandma taught were culinary. Grandma taught us that to serve others is to love them well. Hard work is our privilege. Clothes smell better when they've been line-dried. No picnic is complete without damp washcloths in a Ziploc. Faithfulness even when inconvenient is genuine faithfulness. Learning is important. God makes folks from the most unlikely backgrounds His children.

Grandma isn't a depressed person, but she isn't much of a smiler. I guess she is more prone to seriousness than lightheartedness. But in recent years, more and more, we have enjoyed the privilege of her smile. She laughs as she recalls Grandpa knocking over the Christmas tree. She laughed when an Aunt accidentally put trick candles on her birthday cake. ("Who would do that to Grandma?") She smiles to see my children, her great-grandchildren, when they get the chance to spend time together.

These have been some of my thoughts this morning. Because roast beef takes me back to Grandma's kitchen and, seriously, there is almost no place on earth I enjoy more than that kitchen!

11.01.2010

9.24.2010

09/24/2010

Lorraine, our host for today, smiles as she chats with me on the dock at her pond.
Lorraine and her husband own quite a bit of land just outside of Bandera. She invited us to bring the kids down for some simple summer fun. Today we took her up on her offer. My friend Judy and I took our (combined) six kids and hit the dock! Here we are...all of us! (Judy is laying on the bottom right, Hannah is bending over behind the car seat, I'm stuck behind my girls, and Liam is in the car seat!)
These pictures were actually taken at the very end of our time. It's always the moms that get exhausted! Judy sprawled out on the dock.
The boys did a little fishing with the net. The only thing we brought in all day was a minnow. I think it was Joel's catch. But, anyway, the kids had a great time trying!
My girls and me.
Judy lifting Nathan from the dock to the shore.
Keeping an eye out for fish.
This is Hannah. Nathan proposed to her the other day, but she turned him down. He took it well.
Nia's braids.
Joel just looks so serious! He actually had a blast!
We rode on the paddle boat. Lorraine watched Liam on shore, but the rest of us ventured out together.
I just love the look on Joel's face. It seems he might like to lap up a bit of the lake for some mid-ride refreshment!
Doesn't it look like things are completely out of control on the boat? Between Hannah's expression and Lottie's position, it appears we are about to capsize. But we didn't!
Joel preparing for some fishing.
Judy helped us out of all our tangles and other fishing woes.
(sing) "Sittin' on the dock of the bay---ay..."

Feeding the fish.
So excited to be here!
Anyway, we had a wonderful few hours at the lake. The kids have exhausted themselves AND their mothers, but it is a happy exhaustion. Now we are back home and I'm preparing to tackle the more mundane tasks of laundry and dishes.

9.07.2010

09/07/2010

Has it really been as long as I think it's been since I last posted?

Yes. It really has.

Without further ado (and because the kids probably won't continue happily playing while I create a masterful blog post full of unexpected puns and hysterical narration) and with minimal explanation...the pictures:




Nick used to see these Buffalo regularly on his drive into Kerrville: